Who I am and what I can do gives me a sense of life and allows me to appreciate timeless values: security, respect, gratitude, forgiveness, understanding.
I was born and raised in Poland.
I graduated finance and accounting, after which I obtained several certificates preparing me for work in accounting. I wanted to be someone so I decided I would be an accountant. I worked with one of the best accountants in my town who patiently taught me everything. To be honest I was the worst accountant you can imagine.
Unfortunately, instead of working on a computer, keeping appointments and writing documents, I talked during my work with my colleagues about life and enjoyed contact with people.
My interests and the joy of life differed from my professional career. One day I did the best thing I could do, after 3 years of trial and error, I abandoned this profession and decided to invest in my development to find a job where I could work myself.
Which way did I choose? How much did I risk? Did I manage?
I take everything I feel and what matters which I keep in my heart and in my hands and I fight for these things.
After several years of work in various positions, life has shown me that work done solely for money limits my happiness and freedom in life. My job change started with one course of personal development.
I was so involved that I was offered the opportunity to organize inspirational meetings in my city. So without prior experience I organized the venue and the audience. I have organized the first and second meeting. In the meantime, I graduated from business coaching and personal development mentorship, based on the foundations of Victor Frankl and Steven R. Covey. Later I was offered the idea of creating a business-oriented advisory group, so I was the co-organizer of incredibly inspirational events.
I was a speaker and I conducted development workshops. I passed- on the knowledge I acquired during earlier training. I met more and more wonderful people. I opened my own company “opensoul ”. I received a certificate from the quality of Law Business Quality a trustworthy brand. I had more and more proposals for cooperation. I accepted another proposal and this time I became the organizer the weekends for women in Rochna. This was really my next success, because I proved to myself that I was able to find myself in new situations, I can risk and learn new things. I was able to realize the projects and dreams of other people, and I did so through a good training in character building. I gained new skills: as an independent salesman, a negotiator, self-confidence, free time, money. Meanwhile, I once again participated in a new challenge and took part in public appearances of Toastmasters. Already at the first meeting I got a standing ovation for my courage and creativity.
So, by resigning from work and getting involved in new things. I was getting chooser to choose things witch were closer to my heart. I felt that I was approaching a change of profession. Meanwhile, I started introspection. I chose from life what is best for me, and I rejected everything that was not compatible with me.
Finally I decided to take another step and submitted papers to the university for clinical psychology. Here I felt I was in the right place. I reached the place where my body moves to the rhythm of the moment. I mean, I’m already realizing my plans and getting ready to work on my biggest challenge.
Life is amazing and no one knows what life will bring them so there is so much life in life.
My work touches things that are hard for us in our lives to reconcile. They touch you, your family and your loved ones. We fight with our own emotions or with difficult people.
We need to be trained to become brave people and to perceive beauty, goodness, the joy of the moment, to appreciate what we have in pleasant moments. We should remember that the world in which we live is unpredictable and nothing is certain. Everything is subject to change.
The biggest challenge facing life is the acceptance of uncertainty and change. In this world we decide whether we want to build our character to get to know each other better, to learn to solve problems that always come up. We will act under the influence of bad feelings and in spite of overselves our families or try to learn to take responsibility and look for a way that is just not base apparent because it is hidden behind emotions. In life this will not be all right and will not work the way we want without our participation. We must start to participate in it better. Some of the situations in which we participate are not influenced by us, but what happens in a given situation with our emotions has a great impact because every decision we make takes us somewhere.
We can manage our lives so that we can get where we want to be but first we have to accept the place where we are, so that we know where we are and where we are going to.
Where am I now? Have my decisions been good?
It may be up to us to learn to respect one another and not hurt others.
As a Pole living in the Middle East in Qatar, I noticed that friendship and love are not connected with the skin color. Every person representing a different culture and environment desires and seeks for love and friendship.
Living from the beginning to the end involves self-acceptance, finding your own place on earth, discovering your own skills and demonstrating your work. At the right moment we want to become part of the life of the beloved person.
During the time in which we live, we make choices that may bring us closer to the lifestyle we want or we can just wait for the right time and do nothing.
In the near east I got another valuable lesson. I corresponded with people helping them solve their problems, inspire them, but also created new friendships.
My new acquaintances were surprised that I was not ready to commit frequent meetings due to my fear of strangers. Some were annoyed and wondered how I could fear them, since I hadn’t to agreed meet them yet, and they felt slightly offended. Today we spend time together. We are aware of each other knowing that the most important thing is a personality not where we come from.
I know who I am. I see. I gained. What am I dreaming about?
I decided on this journey of life to build my character. I like to spend time in solitude, in silence. In this way I purify my soul and strengthen myself by bringing courageously into difficult situations in which I find solutions. I do not like to create problems because life has taught me that out of every situation there is the way out.
Life looks as if it depends on our parents to decide who we are.
My experience and the story of my life perfectly prepared me to take the position of clinical psychologist. With great curiosity I am interested in the human psyche, and in particular the relationship that occurs between daughter and mother in all its aspects. I feel perfect in the role of a psychologist: from head to toe.
Ten years ago when my Mum died I was still looking for tips on how to cope with the departure of my mother because then I felt wounded and abandoned by taking part in personal development courses, I got the values and the rules by which I could start living a new life.
When I did this after some time, I noticed a lack of consistency in my life. I understood that I didn’t want to build a new life with the emptiness of someone close, but that I wanted to know if I could still trust, love, enjoy my life and the happiness of others.
I was looking for answers to what I think about myself, who I am for myself and for others at the same time. I didn’t want to wait for moment to build my self-esteem, but I wanted to participate and feel how slowly I grew and grew.
I wanted to be natural, but without mistakes I didn’t find a better path than the one where you have to first redirect your energy to your heart and learn life through experience. At one point I realized that getting to know one’s true self was a process of being with oneself through which I knew more of myself.
Everybody knows who is, but he is afraid that if he shows who he really is will have a problem because others will not understand him.
My life is based on the same principles as many other people. I study, work, travel, meet people. I don’t deviate from the norm with one exception.
My job as a psychologist and life is based on the principle that I have to find the truth by coming to a source in which we can come into contact with emotional pain.
When you look closely at what torments you and causes pain, your fear disappears
I believe that the wisdom of life is created when our experience and what we’re doing nowadays we see beyond the mental schema.
When this happens and we get rid of the defense mechanisms in which we live as if in a prison, then we return to our natural position and see who we really are.
You know what you are, what you can lose, and what you have to fight. You always choose the lies that have meaningful versions. To compromise with someone is a principle without common good. That’s why you choose a compromise with yourself. Life is full of surprises but also has many gifts.
What can you discover ?
The feeling of guilt that you carry in you and reheats in you in different situations.
If we feel shame for the mistakes we made because the will affect this the present and inhibit our efficiency.
We may discover that we don’t forgive ourselves and others for our and their wrongdoings.
Sadness of death of a loved one or leaving the nearest person.
Fear and fear from other people you are afraid to tell the truth.
Don’t accept yourself and hide from the world.
You don’t have the courage to say what you really think and to throw away what you have been missing for many years. – Nie chęć do tego, żeby przed kimś się otworzyć i wyrzucić z siebie to co zalega sprzed wielu lat.
Don’t trust yourself or others.
Fear and the threat that if you discover the truth you will feel the power, the joy of life, and you know that you will start to make changes that you dream and plan in your mind, but you’re afraid of the reactions of your loved ones and you start to claim that you take responsibility for others so you want to protect others. The illusion that as it is now will be best for all, causing you constant pain that can make you sick within a few years.